Finding fair bases

OK!! Im getting very annoyed how I cant find any bases that I can take on and WIN!.. It really really takes forever to find one spending over 10k oil just to find a base that is NOT 3 or 5 times HIGHER THAN MY HQ.. Im at HQ8 and when searching for medals I only find HQs 11,12,13,14,15 and sometimes 20
i end up using more oil then earned and since it takes oil to make troops that takes up even way more oil.
OH AND DID I FORGET TO MENTION
When someone attacks my base its always a HQ 10,11,12,13,14,15 and I have never seen HQs lower then me when searching.
SO!! Id like you to fix this unfair match ups and balance the HQ differences.
Dont get me wrong its a 5 star game I like it but this have to be fix or it will lose many players like my self

Old summoner now quitting about Empires & Allies, v1.20.93219